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We believe in Solving Problems of the Muslims around World! FREE Of Cost! But It's Not Possible Without the Donation Of You People. Our Mission is To Provide Free Istikhara for 24 Hours a day and 7 days a week. We Know this is going to be tough but with the Help Almighty ALLAH, It's Going To Happen Very Soon that Muslims around the world will be able to Request Istikhara Online anytime before they are intending to take a decision about things! There are several ways that marriages can be saved and recovered and maintained so that couples do not have to drift apart from each other. It`s important to realize that being married means that you will spend a long time with that one person. And people change as they grow older. You might have met your spouse when you were a teenager and as you get older wonder why things aren`t the same as they used to be. You have to remember that people change from decade to decade. In your twenties you might have found more things funny, spent a bit too much money and went out every weekend. While now you find that quite evenings at home are best and that you don`t want to spend a dime. Your spouse might not like the new changes, or you might not like that way that your spouse is acting, spending their time or behaving. The best thing to do is to try to grow along with your spouse. That involves keeping date nights once a week and try to get involved in the other person`s interest. Keeping a date night once a week is a great way to stay connected and feel special. It is easy for married couples to put their marriage on the back burner, because there are lots of other things in life such as kids, work, money and situations that are out of our control. Having a night out creates a sense that your marriage is important and special. Date nights do not have to cost any money. They can involve a late night walk, a bike ride, or inexpensive picnic of peanut butter sandwiches, sometimes the simpler the better. Although most couples do enjoy a nice dinner from time to time. Sharing interests does not mean that you have to do everything with your spouse. It is important to find new things to do together that can keep things fun and new, while keeping some interests and hobbies separate. It is healthy for couples to still have a sense of independence and if you don`t does everything together than you have something to talk about on your date nights! It is also crucial to remember that you need to be flexible with each other. You can`t control the other person, but you do require some respect. That means that your spouse should be able to go out with friends and co-workers and do extracurricular things such as a weekend away with a buddy, as long as they let you know and keep you posted. Keeping a marriage happy is all about trusting the other person, loving them and growing with them on whatever crazy path they may take. And know that rough periods happen , expect them and move ahead from there. When your marriage is in trouble and has come to a standstill then you need to go out and get help. 

You obviously can not fix the situation on your own, or it would be fixed, and fixing the issues is the only way to get on the road to having a healthy and happy marriage. So where can you turn to for help with your marriage? Just about everywhere! All you have to do is to be open to the advice your receive and apply what you resonate with to your marriage. Here are some places to look for help for your marriage: Friends Sometimes we don't want to admit to our friends that we are having issues, but if you want to fix your marriage then it may be necessary visit Istikhara For Marriage. Not just any friends will do here! You are looking for friends that have gone through tough times similar to you and have made it through with flying colors. These are the people who have been there and have some answers that worked for them, which may work for you as well. Of course the downside is your friends will know what's going on and constantly want to know if you are doing better. This can get annoying and intrusive after a while. And some friends will judge you for where you are and it can cause a rift in the friendship. It's best to only consult with a trusted friend. Relationship Forums If you are too scared to talk to people you know then you may want to talk to a bunch of strangers. Why would you do that? Because they are going to be open and honest with you in all regards. They will tell you what you are doing wrong without worrying about hurting your feelings, and they will give you their opinion loud and clear. That's the beauty of the internet - there is no face behind the advice and they can say what they want to say. The downside to this is you may be taking advice for a 12 year-old who writes very well for her age. Because there is no face behind the words you don't really know who is giving you the advice. The upside to this is that you will get a wide variety of opinions and advice based on a wide variety of experiences and beliefs. This may help you make a more informed decisions than if you were basing it on one viewpoint. Counselling Relationship counselling is not a bad thing! It shouldn't be a last resort. It's a way to get to the bottom of your issues and save your marriage with a professional who generally knows what they are talking about. How can that be bad? The only downside to it is that it can cost a lot of money and it's not guaranteed to help your marriage. Another problem is that you may find your spouse doesn't want to attend relationship counselling. Whether it's because of the stigma of a 'failed relationship' that it comes with or because they don't want to talk to a stranger about their problems. It can be hard to get a reluctant person to cooperate with the counselling. Self-Help Books Normally self-help books are written by professionals or people who have been in the situation they are writing about and have experience to back up their words. That's what makes these books so beneficial. If you can relate to what the author is saying then you may relate to the solutions that author is providing. Another great thing about self-help books is that you don't have to talk to anyone. You don't have to hang your dirty laundry out for all to see if you don't want to. This can help you save your marriage while keeping it on the down-low. And of course you can purchase most books online through amazon and other online sources. There are even instant downloadable self-help eBooks, videos, and other online resources that can help you now without waiting for a book to come in the mail.